I’m sitting here, it is Saturday morning and our work week at Urban Impact is finished. As physically exhausting as hanging sheetrock has been I think the real hard work is only just (re)beginning.
Yes, I missed a day, I mentioned the exhaustion didn’t I? Thursday is typically a very productive day as everyone is rolling along in a good groove. We all know pretty well how to use the tools and what the task is that we should be performing so a lot of real progress happens. And, we also go to the Creole Creamery on Thursday so we put it all out at work knowing we will enjoy that delicious ice cream all the more ( there’s an allegory in there).
Thursday was a rainy day and it rained hard all night into the early hours of Friday. Rain wreaks havoc on a traditional construction site, imagine how much worse it is at such a nontraditional project as the Porch. We had a few wet walls and some probably damaged insulation and sheetrock.
Friday was a relief, crazy, happy, sad, great day. It is of course the end of the week and the majority of what we have been assigned we have completed or maybe more accurately have gotten better than half way done. The team from Eau Claire left early on Friday. This precluded them from the gumbo lunch which is almost reason enough to come for the week.
Lunch was a good opportunity for me to sit with one of the tradesmen and just chat. Thomas (Tom) is a young man with a deeply troubled past. Tom readily admitted he had been a bad boy, with emphasis on the bad. He is a single dad of abeautiful 8 year old daughter, Liz Beth. Tom’s own youth was hard and his dad was physically abusive. Tom was a good student and a bright kid. He told me he had been in jail and prison multiple times. He was a physics major at LSU when he was arrested the last time for selling drugs. I sensed he was holding back on some things that he felt were so bad he just didn’t want to share. The birth of Liz Beth caused him to change 180 degrees, He is now sober and has a good job as an HVAC technician. He really lives to see his daughter on the weekends. When Liz Beth was born Tom was a mess and didn’t have the means to care for her, so even though he had reservations, he allowed his parents to adopt her. He has a lot of anger towards his father, but does admit his parents care for Liz Beth very well and he is grateful that he is able to have some say in her upbringing. I don’t think Tom is an unusual man here in NOLA, but he is singularly unique as all are and as our morning lesson was on caring for “the poor”… Tom went back to work before I could muster the courage to ask him if I could pray for him. I did stop him as we were picking up our tools and asked him if I could pray for him right then, he said that would be great, so I prayed with/for him. So many young men here need to be held by an earthly father and just told that they have value and that God loves them. It isn’t a pefect world, but God has a perfect plan – Would you remember Tom, Liz Beth and Tom’s family and their future when you pray?
There’s more work to be done at the Porch. We didn’t really come close to doing as much as we would have hoped we could do. Many hands make light work – join in.
Friday night is seafood night and so for us it is a short ride to Cajun Seafood #1 for some boiled shrimp, crawdads, and po’ boys. Good food and good meal with friends. The house next to us is some sort of a group home. At least one of the men who lives there is always outside and seems quite social. But, John has many challenges and I feel quite positive that when John is talking to you he is also hearing other people talking in his head. It can be quite a challenge to engage with him. He showed up just about the time we were sitting down to eat so I invited him to join us. Our church planting friends Eric and Christina Holtrop joined us as well. We had a good time. John was a bit awkward at times and it was difficult to know how to respond to him. We just showed him love and patience as best we could. At some point John decided to pick up his plate and went inside the group house to finish eating. Pray for John as he struggles to live a productive life. Eric and Christina hung out with us for a while. Pray also for them as they work to expand the Kingdom here in NOLA. There are many challenges – most of them I’ll never understand and hope to never experience.
Is it over? No the reality is that now the hard part begins, as we leave and reenter our suburban white bread world with our closed doors and “do not disturb” realities. How do we process and apply the truth of the Gospel and the true lives of Tom, John, and Eric and Christina as well as the others we’ve encountered this past week? Can we put the lessons we’ve learned into action? They taught us challenge circle on Monday and we never had a chance to “play” challenge circle, but now they turn us loose back into “challenge life” – join the game.









